Comments on: Does The Law of Attraction Actually Work?

By: Lavania

Lavania — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:09:31 +0000

Hey..
I really liked your article. It was light and a good read. I’ve been reading about the Law Of Attraction since 3 years. But still i am not being able to form my life in the i want to. Why is this happening to me? I try my best, I do whatever i should do, but still I am stuck somewhere..

By: joyce anderson

joyce anderson — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 14:56:07 +0000

WEll I just read the book the secret and found that it needed to be more down to my level.Hard to understand for someone that has only a high school education. I understand it is mainly about positive thinking and we can will are mind to get what we want.It is like playing bingo and just needing B13 and really concentrating on that number and not getting it.I needed advise on my mind if always on how insecure I am and always talking about it to people. But yet I feel good about myself also so mixed up a bit. I have a terrible past things I did as a teenager and mad marriages seem to hang on to all of it at age 51. Maybe I us it for attention. or I feel that my life is in a good place now and don’t deserve it. I can’t fiqure it out. I have very bad anxiety issues. I read this book looking for something but its hard to understand. I got that if i want money to just think about it and it will happen how is that on a 7 dollar and hour job and parttime. Or if you are sick and thing that you are not that good things will happen. What I didn’t get is how to handle my thinking that everyone is better than me. Like my husbans ex wife she is really smart and a banker and I nothing. But yet I do committee things with her Like on a cancer committee with her and yet she intimidates me where in the book helps with all my issues Please help.

By: marina

marina — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 20:34:47 +0000

Your point however differs from those I’ve heard before. Basically, if we put things into action, we get the result one way or another. As to my understanding, targeted visualization also is a powereful tool, since our thoughts create that very vibration and etc. Basically, we dont need LOA for things to happen, we take action anyways.

By: Raymond Burton

Raymond Burton — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:57:59 +0000

Read my comment again. Visualization i.E LOA is not taking knowledge and applying it with action. So there is nothing wrong with it. There is a difference between day dreaming about someone being with you and actively trying to make them want to be with you. Visualization seldom generates a result for people without the action part. Manipulation can be defined as ” to control or play upon by artful, unfair, or insidious means especially to one’s own advantage” so yes, if you plot out the correct actions it takes to get someone to do something you want them to, despite what they really want to do then it is manipulation. In Jules last sentence she states “This is ,however no guarantee that he wants to be with me!” And in there lies the answer.

By: marina

marina — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:41:04 +0000

Hi Ray,
I thank you for your quick response, but when you say “manipulation”, is it really applicable here. Whats wrong with visualizing a person of your dreams with you.
In terms of ‘correct knowledge’, to what knowledge are you reffering?