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		<title>By: Andre</title>
		<link>http://raymondburton.com/life/sitting-and-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-11416</link>
		<dc:creator>Andre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 04:26:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Speaking with you about this issue caused me to remember an article I read in the paper one day. I just looked at the headline and passed it on. When I was eating dinner, I happened on the article again. I was glad I did, it was a wonderful article. Our conversation made me think of it again.

It is about a hospice for homeless people in the city called Joseph&#039;s House. I never knew it existed. The work they do is an example of what we have been conversing about here.

So I offer &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/11/28/AR2008112802255.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;the article&lt;/a&gt; for the consideration of the readership.

As for the kind assistance you provided to the person in need, I believe you fulfilled the spirit of the reading in Sirach. I&#039;m happy that you were there to offer assistance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking with you about this issue caused me to remember an article I read in the paper one day. I just looked at the headline and passed it on. When I was eating dinner, I happened on the article again. I was glad I did, it was a wonderful article. Our conversation made me think of it again.</p>
<p>It is about a hospice for homeless people in the city called Joseph&#8217;s House. I never knew it existed. The work they do is an example of what we have been conversing about here.</p>
<p>So I offer <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/11/28/AR2008112802255.html" rel="nofollow">the article</a> for the consideration of the readership.</p>
<p>As for the kind assistance you provided to the person in need, I believe you fulfilled the spirit of the reading in Sirach. I&#8217;m happy that you were there to offer assistance.</p>
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		<title>By: Raymond Burton</title>
		<link>http://raymondburton.com/life/sitting-and-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-11390</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond Burton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 05:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I forgot something Andre. Actually I forgot a lot and I think it&#039;s another whole article but here is a bit of what I was thinking after reading what you wrote.

I&#039;ve always thought how awesome it would be to just be allowed to walk into a seniors place and say &quot;who wants to talk&quot;. Actually, maybe you can. I don&#039;t know. And I want to find out. Just think about what you could learn about life from someone with so much experience. Priceless. And all they want is someone to listen. 

The other...

I remember about a year ago (as you know I workout :-) I was walking out of the drug store and had the opportunity to help and old man into his car. I needed my strength to do it and I don&#039;t know what he would have done if I was not there.

After I said goodbye, I had a feeling in me that I can&#039;t put into words. It was the most useful I have ever felt in my whole life. I thought if I could wake up and get this feeling every day by helping... it was like &quot;THE&quot; answer is EVERY question. I can&#039;t really explain it.

I read once &quot;Where you tears fall your treasure lies.&quot; When your soul is moved to tears with the intensity of a moment, you&#039;ve found your calling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I forgot something Andre. Actually I forgot a lot and I think it&#8217;s another whole article but here is a bit of what I was thinking after reading what you wrote.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always thought how awesome it would be to just be allowed to walk into a seniors place and say &#8220;who wants to talk&#8221;. Actually, maybe you can. I don&#8217;t know. And I want to find out. Just think about what you could learn about life from someone with so much experience. Priceless. And all they want is someone to listen. </p>
<p>The other&#8230;</p>
<p>I remember about a year ago (as you know I workout <img src='http://raymondburton.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  I was walking out of the drug store and had the opportunity to help and old man into his car. I needed my strength to do it and I don&#8217;t know what he would have done if I was not there.</p>
<p>After I said goodbye, I had a feeling in me that I can&#8217;t put into words. It was the most useful I have ever felt in my whole life. I thought if I could wake up and get this feeling every day by helping&#8230; it was like &#8220;THE&#8221; answer is EVERY question. I can&#8217;t really explain it.</p>
<p>I read once &#8220;Where you tears fall your treasure lies.&#8221; When your soul is moved to tears with the intensity of a moment, you&#8217;ve found your calling.</p>
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		<title>By: Raymond Burton</title>
		<link>http://raymondburton.com/life/sitting-and-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-11389</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond Burton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 05:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>O son, help your father in his old age, and do not grieve him as long as he lives; even if he is lacking in forbearance, in all your strength, do not despise him.  For kindness to a father will not be forgotten.  In the day of your affliction, it will be remembered.

-Sirach 3:12-15

You&#039;re a beautiful soul Andre.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>O son, help your father in his old age, and do not grieve him as long as he lives; even if he is lacking in forbearance, in all your strength, do not despise him.  For kindness to a father will not be forgotten.  In the day of your affliction, it will be remembered.</p>
<p>-Sirach 3:12-15</p>
<p>You&#8217;re a beautiful soul Andre.</p>
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		<title>By: Andre</title>
		<link>http://raymondburton.com/life/sitting-and-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-11388</link>
		<dc:creator>Andre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post has a lot of things to think about. I have not thought seriously about many of these themes since college. Many thanks for the forum to work them out.

Considering the helpfulness aspect of the post--

I figure that being helpful is good for the soul as well as developing  very positive human qualities: compassion, loyalty, faith, love. The reason these qualities are developed is that you have to recognize another person humanity to have a sense of service. Otherwise, why would a person do it?

I also think that the desire to be helpful is a gift because what is second nature to one person, another person may not have an inkling of what the feeling is. Can a person be coerced to helpfulness? I don&#039;t believe so--helpfulness is a matter of will (one has it or they do not). Can it be developed? Potentially. 

Your thoughts?


A story--There is a senior citizen that I just lend an ear to. It is amazing to witness some people do not take the time to listen (and possess impatience with the elderly). The man is extremely kind, full of faith, and has an amazingly strong will. I can tell though that the years are slowly starting to take their toll.

It is interesting to hear the stories of his life, and hard to hear of his concerns and his worries of getting things done before life comes to its end.

Even though it will hurt when nature takes its course, I have decided to help him in my little way. I can only say that Sirach 3:12-15 is an inspiration.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post has a lot of things to think about. I have not thought seriously about many of these themes since college. Many thanks for the forum to work them out.</p>
<p>Considering the helpfulness aspect of the post&#8211;</p>
<p>I figure that being helpful is good for the soul as well as developing  very positive human qualities: compassion, loyalty, faith, love. The reason these qualities are developed is that you have to recognize another person humanity to have a sense of service. Otherwise, why would a person do it?</p>
<p>I also think that the desire to be helpful is a gift because what is second nature to one person, another person may not have an inkling of what the feeling is. Can a person be coerced to helpfulness? I don&#8217;t believe so&#8211;helpfulness is a matter of will (one has it or they do not). Can it be developed? Potentially. </p>
<p>Your thoughts?</p>
<p>A story&#8211;There is a senior citizen that I just lend an ear to. It is amazing to witness some people do not take the time to listen (and possess impatience with the elderly). The man is extremely kind, full of faith, and has an amazingly strong will. I can tell though that the years are slowly starting to take their toll.</p>
<p>It is interesting to hear the stories of his life, and hard to hear of his concerns and his worries of getting things done before life comes to its end.</p>
<p>Even though it will hurt when nature takes its course, I have decided to help him in my little way. I can only say that Sirach 3:12-15 is an inspiration.</p>
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		<title>By: Raymond Burton</title>
		<link>http://raymondburton.com/life/sitting-and-thinking/comment-page-1/#comment-11369</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond Burton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 07:33:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you can always look at anything in two ways; positive and negative.

If you lost your job you are either:
1) desperate, jobless and about to be poor.
2) Given free time to actually think about how to make your next fortune in a healthy and positive way that you enjoy and will help the most people.

The other thing is that we don&#039;t have to know the how. We just need to know the what. If you can figure out WHAT you want to do and WHAT makes you happy then the how will be attracted to you.

In the end we are all going to die. No one has the answers. Make this ride as enjoyable as you can by living to your highest potential.

How do I deal with negative thoughts? By not having them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you can always look at anything in two ways; positive and negative.</p>
<p>If you lost your job you are either:<br />
1) desperate, jobless and about to be poor.<br />
2) Given free time to actually think about how to make your next fortune in a healthy and positive way that you enjoy and will help the most people.</p>
<p>The other thing is that we don&#8217;t have to know the how. We just need to know the what. If you can figure out WHAT you want to do and WHAT makes you happy then the how will be attracted to you.</p>
<p>In the end we are all going to die. No one has the answers. Make this ride as enjoyable as you can by living to your highest potential.</p>
<p>How do I deal with negative thoughts? By not having them.</p>
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